Your seventh and last objective is to stay honest with your spouse and be loyal and faithful to him/her. Even after the break up of the relationship, you should still maintain the relationship; there is a messages of obsession reviewspossibility that he/she might still love you. Remember, the break up was never your fault and you had to make a mistake. If you are able to keep your integrity to your marriage after the break up and if you show that you still love him/her, then the relationship will continue to grow stronger.
Your ultimate objective in having a happy marriage is to know that you will meet your spouse in the future. You do not want to give up because you did not succeed with your first relationship. And neither should you give up in trying to achieve your goal.
Your spouse may not have ever had the best attitude but he/she will never have the worst attitude and if you can keep the lines of communication open and if you can talk to your spouse, you will succeed even in your marriage. as long as both of you are motivated enough to be successful in accomplishing your goal.